"I have always thought of Christmas time, when it has come round, as a good time; a kind, forgiving, charitable time; the only time I know of, in the long calendar of the year, when men and women seem by one consent to open their shut-up hearts freely, and to think of people below them as if they really were fellow passengers to the grave, and not another race of creatures bound on other journeys." ~Charles Dickens
I used to love Christmas so much. Now, I stress for a month prior to Christmas and dread it.
You know what I think of when I think of Christmas? I don't think about the Shopping Days Left or how many presents I have under the tree. You know what I think of when I think of MY Christmas?

When I was younger, Christmas wasn't about "finding the perfect present" and in turn causing yourself to have a massive amount of stress. It was about getting together and spending time with your family. Now, my family can't even make time to all get together more than once a year. I can't remember any of the presents I got last year for Christmas (actually the only one I remember is my sister necklace, which I wear ALL ZE TIME!), but I can remember dancing in my grandparents TV room to Richard Simmons "Sweatin' to the Oldies" when I was 3 years old.
What has Christmas come to? When spending over $800 on Christmas presents was a means of showing the Christmas spirit? I miss when the only stress I had in my life around Christmas was playing capture the flag in my grandparents basement in the dark.
If you want to get me a present for Christmas, I'll tell you exactly what I want. I want books to read my daughter before bedtime, and I want you to donate to an angel on the Christmas trees at stores, and I want you to all come home for Christmas. That's truly what Christmas is all about.
Now, let's not forget...there are only 38 shopping days left for "Christmas."
Vanessa, just because your such an awesome blog friend I have to follow you. Not that I mind. This is an outstanding view of "Christmas." Every time I go home I could use a Xanax, and my sister is the same way. I'm pretty sure my mom could, too.
ReplyDeleteVanessa, that sounds like a wonderful Christmas! Now if you 3 girls will just find a day that wil work for all of you!!! I'd love to have everyone home, play some games, sit around and laugh, and watch you 'sweatin to the oldies'!!! Love you!!! ~mom
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